My father was the pastor of my church when I was growing up, and I was the eldest child. Given this position, I would constantly be reminded to set an example for the other women in our church in my attire and attitude. It was a tall order. Most first-born children understand this pressure.
People were watching me, and I knew that any slip-up could convey a negative impression on my father, so I was careful.
At the time, I didn’t fully understand my parents’ requirements on dressing modestly or refusing certain social events, but I obeyed their rules. With time, I began to realize that the innate nature of my role as the daughter of a leader would lead people to view me as a leader, as well.
Looking back, I realize their intentions. My parents wanted me to be set apart.
The Israelites were given certain requirements to those who desired to make a special vow- a vow of separation to the Lord as a Nazirite. Specific obligations, such as abstaining from drinking wine or grape juice, keeping hair long, and avoiding dead bodies, were prohibitions given to any man or woman seeking this act of devotion to the Lord (Numbers 6). The outward signs were an expression of an internal devotion to God.
As an adult, I have come to realize that an inward devotion to the Lord should automatically bleed out into how we speak and act and even in the way we physically present ourselves. As Christ-followers, we have freedom in how we dress or socialize, yet we realize that as a child of God we should carry ourselves in a way that is unique and set apart. Our choices can positively impact others that may not know Him.
God’s desires your devotion. While it may not necessarily be a Nazarite vow you are taking, it could mean making appropriate choices in appearance, diet, or who you are associating with.
Know that it is your heart that God is after, and that you are His daughter. May others realize through your words and actions that the Lord’s face is shining on you and that He has written His name on your heart.
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-Betsy
